Gender Discrimination?

December 2017, I first laid my eyes on these posts -

https://www.facebook.com/pg/meyenetwork/photos/?tab=album&album_id=1302023749902355

#মজনু_জানো? #NoMeansNo #না_মানে_না

Please read this post and then you think clearly! \

Read all the pics? Now bear with me...

First of all, I often beat up eve-teasers and harassers in streets and saved/helped several girls/ladies (Some of them were totally unknown ones and some of them were my friends/relatives) from their harassment.

Well, since boys are usually dominating, aggressive, sentimental or emotional & careless, girls had to be cruel, avoiding, realistic, detached and straightforward.

That's cool!

I disregard those boys who continuously disturb girls, thinking they are loving them, but in reality, they are just harassing them and then a girl gotta say #NoMeansNo.

But not all the time its the boys' fault. I was with some fundraiser teams for tortured women in BD Women Foundation, there I learned that these hideous incidents happen 70% where the boy is responsible, 28% where the girl insulted or made fun or made him beaten up by others or insulted his families or made a move that leads to any of these. And 2% where none of them rather a 3rd person was responsible.

I spit on the faces of those boys who don't want to be cool! (Courtesy of Carlito-WWE)

Those who wanna be typical bad boy, rapists, torturer, assassins and who knows whatnot, that they keep girl's nudes pics/sex video or something intimate between themselves. What is the matter with them actually? I mean, COME ON!!!! If you are planning to keep her forever, why will you make the video or take pics when you know this may/may not be permanent? And If you two were serious, why do you guys break up after committing so much and coming so far and making porn together?

This ain't LOVE. This is the same as what the prostitutes are for in every country (for boys). And for guys & girls both, you guys should go to the XXX industry.

Now you will say who the hell am I? Why am I saying these?
You’ll say that you can do anything you want, right?

INDEED YOU ARE RIGHT! I can't really do anything about this.

OK, boys! Now you answer me...
Do you know why girls get to keep & share these images of letters, written memes, which showed their dominance over their harassers or lovers (so-called "Chachra" or "Nongra Moner Manush" or "Potential Rapist" or "Ex-Boyfriend", etc..) but can't stand the same treatments from a boy?

Why don’t girls also start making sex videos and nude pics of their Boyfriends/Partners and start harassing the boys?
Why don't they show these to the internet also like a boy does?
Why are they shy in front of everyone but they weren’t shy in front of their BF, who you may or may not end up being married to?

It's pure hypocrisy, nothing else.

I mean, what if a boy wants to say "No" to a girl (Before or after sex)?
What if he keeps her nudes/sex video or something intimate between them?
Why so shy, protesting then?
Why it is taken/treated as a crime? I know it should be, but why girls only get these treatments but not boys, when clearly it is known to all and understood by all that “Ek hate tali bajena”?

Ya, it’s obvious that some are born pervert. Kichu chele omanush, tara meyeder ke rape / torture kore, physical relation kore breakup kore, biyer poreo gaye hat tule, mere poshachik anondo pay, ar kichu ache jara meyeder ke valobashe, shomman kore, care / protect kore. (Well IMO, BF/Hubby should do this, right?)

Jai hok, these debates will go on forever. But Girls!!!

The thing is, “EQUALITY” kokhonoi hobena jodi khali facility neyar shomoy same treatment chao, facility deyar somoy o equality korte hobe, in every sector. in every angle of both gender’s mentality.

Ami onek senior/junior apu/meye ke chini salary peye nijer husband ke shob cheye dami gift ta kine dey, r tader husband er time o hoyna tar sathe meet korar or gift ta khule dekhar. Whether they’re busy with business/job/money or else they’re B@#g!ng any other girl that they can’t even remember what was that gift for in first place.

Abar onek meyekeo ami chini jara husband/bf theke dami dami gift pay, show off kore eta dise, ota dise; othocho oi hubby/bf birthday te kisu kine deya to dure thak, tara khali friends, make up/parlour, kitty party, shopping niye eto busy thake je tader gift deyar occassion tao vule jay.

Let me tell you a True Story.

I know a girl who was a participant in this years "Lux Channel I Superstar". Her BF was being so possessive because it's media, the girl could end up at anyone's bed to be the winner, so he fought hard with her. Not that he doesn't trust her, but he was doing this because he cares about her. The girl got eliminated and eventually they fought a lot again. Boy was so serious with her that he went to her house, met her mom and dad, talked and after awhile the girl broke up with him. Then after a week, the girl is engaged to his cousin who was interested in her for years.

So what was the boyfriend's fault? Is it because
~ He told the truth
~ Tried to warn her
~ Made her taking decisions MEDIA VS BF or
~ After getting eliminated making the girl think that he did this to her

Then, some of these posts came alive in that girl's FB Posts with HASHTAGS like #মজনু_জানো? #NoMeansNo #না_মানে_না

She meant this media as a career and compared it with the boy & his mom/dad. So girls should change or start thinking differently too.

Change is an universal thing. You changed but if your wife/husband doesn’t/didn’t, it will mean nothing!

All I am saying is, Whether you are a girl or a boy, respect everyone!
Even a boy/girl who you are using [or should I say f@#*ing] deserves your damn respect.

P.S.
It’s completely personal view and opinions! #DontJudge
If it hurts your feelings or ethics or lifestyle or mind or heart or D!c# or V@g!n@ ,
#দূরেগিয়েমর! #AintGonnaCareIfYouDontLike